wannabe

If you haven't yet read any of my other posts, I'd encourage you to consider doing so before reading this one.  It doesn't matter which one, really.  I just fear that, if this is the first of my writings you read, you may tune me out forever afterward without some context, because of the advice in…

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what vs. why

This turned out to be my longest post yet!  But I promise you won't be sorry if you take the time to read it. Last Fall, I was invited to be a guest speaker at a university.  I introduced the central theme of The Best Advice So Far, which is that, while we cannot always choose our…

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do it

just do it I finished another chapter in "The Best Advice So Far" around 3:00 this morning.  The basic gist of the advice is this: do something new every day. This is not some thrill-seeking mantra.  Nor is it aimed at the rich.  It's simply about living life rather than wading through it. Here are some new things…

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red balloon

red balloon In yesterday's post, I introduced three favorite pieces of advice passed on by my friend Carlotta.  I also mentioned that I had hoped to complete the last of three chapters in "The Best Advice So Far" devoted to that advice.  I'm happy to report that I succeeded! I'll be honest.  It was hard to get…

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carlotta’s wisdom

carlottas wisdom My dear friends Dibby and Holly lost their mom, Carlotta, to cancer more than a decade ago.  Carlotta was one of those people who said little, but what she did say spoke volumes.  I considered Carlotta a friend.  After she had passed, her daughters found a little piece of paper in her…

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no

hand checking NO box One Christmas, many years back, a dear friend gave me a wonderful book: The Right Thing To Say by Judith Martin.  If you want a compelling, entertaining and utterly useful  book, I highly recommend this one.  For those of you who belong to a book club, I image it would be the most-discussed book yet!…

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trip talk

Last week, I made a whirlwind trip to get Chad from Penn State after his last final.  By "whirlwind," I mean eight hours up on Thursday, arriving at midnight,  and hitting the road again Friday by 3:00 to head back. I love road trips.  I'm no college kid anymore, but I still love them.  Travel of…

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